This
morning I got onto my email and Facebook for a bit. While I was on
Facebook, I saw a news story that NBC put out there about Chick-fil-a
and it's stance again gay marriage. I was curious to see people's
comments. There was one lady who stood out to me, you think maybe a "God
thing", and I started up a convo with her on the feed..
This is what caught my eye:
"Ignorance is bliss!!!
And for those of you who are suppose to be
"Christians" how dare you sit their and JUDGE and go along with
it!!!!!
I will NEVER eat there and support their ignorance!
And yes I go to church and I know the bible!
But I will not judge someone for their own beliefs!!!
Nor will I be in the picket line! Everyone deserves to be happy! And just like
my 7 year old son says... Gay means happy mom!"
I had an uneasy feeling about what she had said, but I kept reading and saw that she had posted again..
"Maybe McDonald's should do this for
all the unwed parents... Or burger king... On all the pregnant teens... Better
yet... How about sonic for all the criminals in this world!
No reason a food place should stick their wanna be
Christian selves into this!!!! DO NOT JUDGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
and then again...
"furthermore, NO ONE KNOW's WHAT
God's view is on this subject, you Bible verse pickin' bigots ONLY use what YOU
want out of that book to justify YOUR hate, NOT God's.. for God can NOT hate
ANYTHING it created ... good grief, I have to take a valium now, and go to WORK
... LMAO"
and then again...
"There many mistakes in the bible."
This
really hit me in my heart. Chick-fil-a isn't saying that they won't
serve gay people. They didn't say that they wouldn't hire gay people.
They said that they were just going to take a stance and support a
Biblical marriage (between man and woman). They give money to what they
believe in. They give money to Christian groups. Just like if this woman
believed in helping cure cancer, she would give money to curing cancer.
I decided that I would go ahead and write back to this lady. Here is
our conversation back and forth (me in red and her in orange)...
"I have read this garbage and haven't
said ANYTHING yet, but Yolanda, you are wrong. There are NO mistakes in His
Word. The Bible is 100% true and is proving it day by day. I think the reason
you feel so strongly about this is God is trying to open your heart and eyes to Him, but you are
resisting. I'm going to pray for you. I hope and pray that you allow God to
move in your life and be as blessed as my family and I are. Have a wonderful
day."
"April,
you're wrong. You should check that again. when we were growing up, you
were told that the bible is God's word. It's true and infallible. That changed
a few years ago. Ask your pastor. If he sticks to it, I would look in to
finding a new church. They should say something like, it's the word of God,
written by man, but inspired by God. That's why it has mistakes in it. Because
man makes mistakes"
"@Yolanda, I do believe it is God's
word written by man. You are totally correct in that statement, but if I was to
stand over your shoulder and say, "Write, 'I am Lord'" you would
"Write, 'I am Lord'" just as Paul, Moses, etc did There are no
mistakes... I am still going to pray for you and I hope you have a blessed day."
"April, I'll pray that God shines a
ray of light in to your hardened heart and shows his love for all of his
creations. Being gay or lesbian is not a mistake. Jeremiah 1:5 Before I formed
you in the womb, I knew you."
"@Yolanda, God, nor I, hate ANYONE,
you are right. We love everyone, but we can disagree with what they are doing
and know that it's wrong and hope that they will come to repent of the sin.
Yes, that is what we can do. Christians get such a bad image put on them bc
people think just because we say they are doing wrong, doesn't mean that we
don't love them and want to see them do right. I make mistakes all the time in
my walk with the Lord, but that's the point, he forgives you if you have a
relationship with him. Just like if you are a parent. You love you child no
matter what, but if he/she does something that is wrong, you are going to talk
to him/her about it and tell them they are doing wrong. You aren't going to
stop loving them. You just ask them to do what's right. That's all we, as
Christians, should be doing."
This
was truly a God thing that I stumbled upon this woman. You could tell
that she was searching for something. I left the conversation with my
last statement, but I did go back and see if she had said something
else.. Of course she had and it furthered my thought that she was
searching.. Please pray, her name is Yolanda Cotton. Please pray that
God will soften her heart to His word. That she will come to know Him.
She is searching too hard, she only has to open her heart.
This was her last comment..
April, I'm not a Christian, but I also have a relationship
with God! I don't have any religious affiliation, but I was a Christian for a
long time. I even went to a religious school for a few years. Christians, nor
any other religion, have insight or understanding of God that was not given to
every other person on earth.
About four years ago, I decides to take my "walk with God" to a
higher level. It was put on my heart to research the bible, from cover to
cover. I found a lot of discrepancies. I challenged everything I was taught
about the bible. If its true, it will remain true. How many mistakes can you
overlook or try to explain away. Well, I'm no longer Christian and it's easy to
see other Christians with my eyes wide open. I see a bunch of hate and bigotry
and I thank God for it
.
In closing I'm going to question, how does she have a relationship with God, but she's not a Christian.. She can't...